I get it.
You're looking at your partner and they are not looking back. You are looking for a deeper connection, physically and or emotionally and instead are feeling lonely. You make a bid for closeness and instead experience rejection.
There used to be passion here, now we are roommates.
At best...
What do i do?
I help Jewish couples at varying stages of their marital relationships...
First 2 years, first 20 years, second 20 years, etc.
I help you get to where you want to be (better sex, better intimacy, better relationship) through this 4 step process;
1. Develop Language 2. Develop Trust 3. Develop Vulnerability and 4. Develop Pleasure
1. Develop Language
Many couples do not have the basic language to begin a conversation regarding their sex life.
We will begin here, making sexuality a 'speakable topic.'
3. Develop Vulnerability
Only once we can be authentic and truly trust one another, can each person feel safe enough to be vulnerable in front of their partner; vulnerable both emotionally as well as physically.
2. Develop Trust
Trust is developed as each partner learns how to bring their authentic self into the room. Once we can be authentic, we can begin to truly know each other and from there to begin to trust each other.
4. Develop Pleasure
With the possibility of vulnerability and thereby exposing oneself and one's desires, can the intimacy between partners grow and develop. From greater intimacy comes the possibility of deeper and greater physical (and emotional!) pleasure.
About Me
My name is Abby Weisz, LCSW, Ma.Ed. I am a couples and intimacy therapist. Through my training in sex therapy as well as couples therapy, I will lead you through a process of greater self understanding, connection to the other and greater emotional and physical intimacy.
